Who has never experienced a failure? Looks like a question that just wants me to change or fervently, in the same way that It's normal to be afraid of anything, but when it comes to real failure, it's hard to feel good. It would have been better if there was a way to prevent them from having to deal with it so often…
best way If you don't want to face failure Or experience the least failure is careful planning. And work seriously, emphasizing "careful" and "serious", but when success is not guaranteed as well. It means that we still have a chance to fail. Because a variety of unpredictable factors may still exist. Taking it seriously and carefully is the best way to reduce the chance of mistakes. that may cause it to fail
in this or this article will tell about one of the factors of failure This means that we can avoid failure if we understand this factor. But I will not conclude what it is, how many, and how to do it. But let's write a story and describe it for you to try and think. Let's compare it with other things in our lives.
idea story
When I was a child, in the Scouting and Girl Scouting classes, every year there was something called base activity to measure or test that I really don't remember, it was a form of activity that might change slightly in detail. But the part that is the same every time is that we have to cross a pond, a ditch or a small canal or something like this, with a rope, a stick, walk, hang, climb, whatever. The important thing is "don't fall into the water".
having to fall into the water at that time Even though it's not very good because our clothes are wet But what's more frightening is the audience that is around, because as soon as someone falls into the water, the sound of boos and laughter will be heard all over the audience. And it's a shame for those who make mistakes…
"Maybe something more frightening "Failure" is "people who watch us" fail.
It can be considered that one of the factors of failure is the pressure from those around you. Many people know that This can make many people afraid to get up and do nothing, or call it “failing for not starting.”
which in that activity After all, drowning doesn't make us feel as bad as being laughed at. or it can be said that Perhaps something more frightening "Failure" is "people who watch us" fail...
The first thought or point of view of this story. might make us realize that Avoid people who like to pile up, laugh at, or watch over other people's failures. In fact, it was not difficult for us to know what kind of people we were surrounded by at that time. It would be better in many cases to focus on doing our best first. without letting anyone know
There is another interesting angle. To tell the following…
Don't fall into that water activity have done it many times It seems that we meet every year to study Scouting. If I'm not mistaken, those days were grades 4–m3 until one time when I was in high school. In a similar activity When everyone cheers for who will fall into the water especially who was the first I noticed and realized that If it's been a long time, no one will fall. It seems to be more difficult to fall together. on the contrary When the first one falls, the next will come more often as well…
visible reason Because it affects the confidence of other people's actions that must be done later. whether it is falling or not falling Since no one fell in the past, we wouldn't have fallen when that person still fell. We probably won't survive at all...
In this view, we may think that In addition to the environment pressures us. The fact that we are just going to be interested Or just keep an eye on the failure of others. It also affects our hearts. can also provoke failure laosbet
Of course, looking at other people's failures and learning is totally different from watching them fail completely in mindset and attitude. that "See, I told you" is often the person who doesn't dare to take the initiative because deep down there is a lack of confidence.
Overall, one way to avoid failure is to adjust our environment. whether from other people who look at us or that we go and look at other people in things that may affect confidence or not constructive towards the goals we are working on
But this story is not over yet…
one more time In the activity, do not fall into the water as usual. while everyone waited to see who would fall I had a friend instead of climbing a rope across the water. He immediately chose to jump into the water and stubbornly emerged with a grin. Received cheers from my friends. The sight I saw was a kind of courage for someone who didn't care.
Falling into the water after this is not fun for the audience. Besides making people fall, they are not ashamed of anything. Some people still choose to cut off by jumping right into it like they have. until the teacher had to stop and warn that doing this would not pass... (Please don't criticize the activity anymore)
But this is another aspect. If we look at failure is not embarrassing. Even if it's not fun smiley story But it's another story that we have to go through. like that friend of mine He probably thought this was just to let it end…
This angle could not be called escaping, avoiding failure. But it's also a good framework. We have to go away from the fear in our hearts. or did not think at all If it must pass here made it pass as quickly as possible...
Even if life has to walk wet Smells muddy, soiled, but it can be washed. Can it be cleaned or not, in the end, it must be dried. Disappeared for a moment anyway…
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