Who has never experienced a failure? Looks like a question that just wants me to change or fervently, in the same way that it’s normal to be afraid of anything, but when it comes to absolute failure, it’s hard to feel good. It would have been better if there were a way to prevent them from having to deal with it so often…The
The best way, if you don’t want to face failure or experience the least failure, is careful planning. And work seriously, emphasizing “careful” and “serious,” but also when success is not guaranteed. It means that we still have a chance to fail. Because a variety of unpredictable factors may still exist. Taking it seriously and carefully is the best way to reduce the chance of mistakes. That may cause it to fail
in this or this article will tell about one of the factors of failure. This means that we can avoid failure if we understand this factor. But I will not conclude what it is, how many there are, or how to do it. But let’s write a story and describe it for you to think about. Let’s compare it with other things in our lives.
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When I was a child, in the Scouting and Girl Scouting classes, every year, there was something called a base activity to measure or test that I really don’t remember. It was a form of activity that might change slightly in detail. But the part that is the same every time is that we have to cross a pond, a ditch, or a small canal or something like this, with a rope, a stick, walk, hang, climb, whatever. The important thing is “don’t fall into the water”.
Having to fall into the water at that time. Even though it’s not very good because our clothes are wet. But what’s more frightening is the audience around, because as soon as someone falls into the water, the sound of boos and laughter will be heard throughout the audience. And it’s a shame for those who make mistakes…
“Maybe something more frightening, ‘Failure’ is people who watch us fail.
One factor in failure is the pressure from those around you. Many people know that this can make many people afraid to get up and do nothing, or call it “failing for not starting.”
Which is in that activity. After all, drowning doesn’t make us feel as bad as being laughed at. Or perhaps something more frightening: “Failure” is “people who watch us” fail...
The first thought or point of view of this story. It might make us realize that we should avoid people who like to pile on, laugh at, or watch over other people’s failures. In fact, it was not difficult for us to know what kind of people we were surrounded by at that time. In many cases, it would be better to focus on doing our best first. Without letting anyone know
There is another interesting angle. To tell the following…
Don’t fall into that water. We’ve done it many times.. It seems we meet every year to study Scouting. If I’m not mistaken, those days were grades 4–3, until one time when I was in high school. In a similar activity, when everyone cheers for who will fall into the water —especially who was the first —I noticed that if it’s been a long time, no one will fall. It seems to be more challenging to fall together. On the contrary, when the first one falls, the next will come more often as well…
Visible reason, because it affects the confidence of other people’s actions that must be done later. Whether it is falling or not falling, since no one fell in the past, we wouldn’t have fallen when that person still fell. We won’t survive at all...
In this view, we may think that, in addition to the environmental pressures, we are also. The fact that we are just going to be disinterested or just keep an eye on others’ failures. It also affects our hearts. Cann can also provoke failure.
Of course, learning from others is totally different from watching them fail completely in their mindset and attitude. That’s what I told you. See”ften the pe. A person who doesn’t want to cause others harm doesn’t have confidence in the environment. Whether from other people who look at us or that we go and look at other people in things that may affect confidence, or are ot constructive towards the goals we are working on
But this story is not over yet… again, during the activity, do not fall into the water as usual. While everyone waited to see who would fall, I had a friend who climbed a rope across the water. He immediately chose to jump into the water and stubbornly emerged with a grin. Received cheers from my friends. The sight I saw was a kind of courage for someone who didn’t have it.
Falling into the water after this is not fun for the audience. Besides making people fall, they are not ashamed of anything. Some people still choose to cut off by jumping right into it like they have, until the teacher had to stop and warn that doing this would not pass... (Please don’t criticize the activity anymore)
But this is another aspect. If we look at failure, it is not embarrassing. Even if it’s a smifunry, it’s itstory ttohhavegto o gh. Like that friend of mine, He probably thought this was just to let it end…
This angle could not be called ‘escaping’ or ‘avoiding failure’. But it’s such a good framework. We have to go away from the fear in our hearts. Or did not think at all. If it must pass here, make it pass as quickly as possible...
Even if life has to walk through smelly, muddy places, it can be washed. Can it be cleaned? In the end, it must be dried. Disappeared for a moment anyway…
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